American historian
Dating sounds so artificial--how could you get to know someone that way? We insisted: love is more than mystery, and romance can survive intimacy.
BETH L. BAILEY
From Front Porch to Back Seat: Courtship in Twentieth-Century America
We have inherited the term "sexual revolution" from those who first coined it in the 1960s, and in adopting their phrase we have perpetuated some of the confusions of that era. We continue to hear echoes of danger in the word "revolution." We continue to conflate very different impulses and outcomes. This received language to revolution has made it much more difficult for us to understand and discuss the roles and meanings of sex in contemporary America.
BETH BAILEY
Sex in the Heartland
The birth control pill, to a great degree, made possible the (hetero)sexual revolution. Yet those who developed oral contraceptives did not intend their work to promote what the majority of Americans at the time called "promiscuity." Doctors generally refused to prescribe the pill to women who were not married; the Supreme Court did not rule this practice unconstitutional until 1972.
BETH BAILEY
Sex in the Heartland
A 1948 advice book for men and women put it bluntly: sex was "something a man should pay for." The author's suggested selling price was, of course, a high one: marriage.
BETH L. BAILEY
From Front Porch to Back Seat: Courtship in Twentieth-Century America